There are people who I've known for years but don't understand me as a person, and there're people who straightly interpret me based on a very short conversation. The latter is the scariest part, they seem to be able to pierce through your heart and ruthlessly pinpoint the side of you which you wanna hide. You would question yourself, is your problem that obvious to others?
Although you know exactly what your problem is, you have little intention to change yourself until someone tells you into your face, and then there comes a sudden revelation pops inside your brain. Why am I so easily deciphered? Why this is not a problem for others? How should I correct this problem from now on?
While there're others just plain fake, praising you for who you are, dodging the bad traits in you, applaud you for whatever you do. Guys love this type of girls, they always like a boost in their mansculinarity, while I think it is just a pure show.
Admitting your own flaws is the bravest thing to do; not admitting means immaturity. Knowing yourself is a process of growing up, while not knowing yourself means you don't recognize your own identity.
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